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It’s another year in the books. I told you last week that by this time next week I’d have pictures of another group of Young Adults who participated in our annual Rite of Passage. Well, here you go:

Isn’t that a fantastic group!! We had three that couldn’t make it to the Banquet on Saturday night (when this picture was made), so we had 14 in all. I’m ecstatic! Here’s some more pictures from the weekend.

The “Baton Pass…”

Here, the parents are preparing to pass the “baton of faith” to their young adult. Why? Because the young adult has to “own” their “own faith.” It can’t be their parents or someone else’s. It must be there’s and that’s what ROP does. It pushes them to “own” their faith. Here’s a picture of Emma Golds. Isn’t she just beaming!

I love that! Here’s another shot of some of the Young Adults holding their batons up high!

I’m so proud of these young adults and I’m proud of that young lady dressed in blue on the far left in the picture above. That’s Clara and that’s child #3 of mine and Pam’s who has been through this process.

(This was taken right before her violin recital in Winston-Salem last week.)

Andrew will be #4 next year. But, I don’t make them do this. I talk with my kids about what it means to be a Christian. I talk with them about what it means to own their own faith.

You see, it’s hard to grow up as a “pastor’s kid.” The expectations are unreal! People place responsibilities and demands on my kids that they would never dream of placing on their own. That’s the cold, hard truth. And that’s why a lot of “pastor’s kids” walk away from the faith. They are treated with a different set of rules than anyone else’s kids.

Now, please don’t get me wrong… Pastor’s kids should be held to a high standard, but there isn’t a passage of Scripture that says they are to be held to a higher standard than your kids. They are to be held to the same “Christian standard” in 1 Timothy 4:12. There isn’t a passage of Scripture for pastor’s kids that’s any different from anyone else. Paul told Timothy that an Elder (or Pastor) must: “manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive.” (1 Timothy 3:4) But folks, that’s true of any home, is it not? Every Christian home should seek to raise “submissive” children. Even Jesus was submissive. At the age of 12 the Bible describes that…

And he went down with them and came to Nazareth and was submissive to them. And his mother treasured up all these things in her heart. Luke 2:51

So, when you see my kids…you are simply looking at children who are being raised in a glass box with expectations that are off the charts… Therefore, if you get a chance…pat them on the back for bearing up on the pressure. No, my kids aren’t perfect. But, they are following Jesus and I’m tickled to death about that and I praise His name for His mercy on them and for their desire to swallow hard and follow Him.

Oh by the way, I didn’t show you this picture of me and Charlotte from the beach. I love this picture…

Ain’t she a cutie-pie! She loved making sand castles with Christmas trees on top!

Here was our family picture from the beach…

We take a family photo each year. My, my, my how the kids have grown! And now I’m watching my grand babies grow! I’m a blessed man!

Speaking of my children and grandchildren… Katy wrote a new blog post this week that truly sums up so much of life. I leave you with it this week…

“IT’S OKAY THOUGH”

It’s funny because I’m not really sure if she picked it up from me or someone else, but Charlotte has picked up a new phrase. It’s one of the dozens she learns every week in this season of tremendous brain development and learning, but this one has stuck out and surprisingly has become of help to me.  She now says it many times a day as though God spoke it to her to comfort me. The first time happened like this….
I was having a rough day. Everything was getting on my nerves and all the mess and stuff to do was crowding out my joy. To make matters worse, I dropped something on the floor in the kitchen and food spilled out everywhere. Charlotte (2 and a half years old) was sitting in her seat waiting for me to deliver lunch to her empty plate. I let out something like, “Dad gum it!” There was a pause and then she calmly respond from her seat behind me “Oh Mommy! It’s okay though!”
It’s okay though. It hit me. How funny it is that my young daughter is so quick to remind me that this really isn’t a big deal, but me in all my adult-ness, blew it out of proportion. That’s when I realized that I do that a lot. Little stuff can make me so overly upset and aggravated. The actual big things that are more than just inconveniences seem crippling because I blow the LITTLE things out of proportion.
You know what I mean.
You have to wait and the doctor’s office longer than you wanted.
A rock cracked your windshield.
It rained on your new shoes.
You caught a cold before a presentation.
The potty training toddler peed on your carpet.
Your teenager absent mindedly locked his keys in the car.
You know.
But if those things cripple us and plummet us down the spiral of despair then what could real trauma do to our hearts? Cancer, Bankruptcy, Fire, Murder, Kidnapping, Death etc. What then?
That’s when it dawned on me that Charlotte is right. This little mess is okay. It’s not a big deal, because when things ARE a big deal I want to remember all that was actually good in my life and how even in the things that really are not okay, that God is good.
When Satan tempts you to blow the minor things out of proportion, remember that he is trying to get you and I to spend our whole lives selfishly focusing on ourselves. He wants us to think we don’t have enough to give, that we are too young or old or busy to help, he wants you to think that you have it so bad. But we don’t. I pray even if I do have it rough…. really rough one day, that I will look up and thank God anyway and be thankful that I tried really hard not to “major on the minors” when I had the chance.
Enjoy the flowers. Feels the breeze. Remember, it’s okay though.

http://heartsonthingsabove.blogspot.com/2017/05/its-okay-though.html

 

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288,000That’s the number of people who went to the movies last year at Two Rivers movie theater in Wilkesboro, NC. That’s over four times the population of Wilkes County. That’s a lot of people!

Let me ask you something. Do you think people who go to the movies would be a good audience to share the Gospel? Do you think if you could find a way to share with the 288,000 who frequent Two Rivers Cinema annually about your church and the Gospel you would try?

Maybe if you could do something like this at the beginning of each movie for the next year?

What did you think? Well, we’re going to try it! We’re going to try to go out into the “highways and hedges” and compel people to come! I’m excited to see what the Lord is going to do with this.

You know, I love the fact that as you study the Gospels in Scripture you see Jesus going to the synagogues throughout Galilee in the first year of His 3-year ministry. But, at year #2, He’s doing outdoor ministry. He is preaching the Sermon on the Mount. He’s feeding the 5,000 and the 4,000 and He’s everywhere! And His popularity is growing to the point that the people want to make Him the King. Do you see the focus? It shifted. He started in the synagogues, where He proclaimed the Good News to those who were “God-fearing” people. But, after that was complete, He made His way to the common people by going to where they were.

In fact, He really made people mad by eating with publicans and sinners, tax collectors and such. It’s the whole “be in the world, but not of the world” idea that He prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane:

15 I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one. 16 They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. 17 Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth. 18 As you sent me into the world, so I have sent them into the world. John 17:15-18

In Matthew 15, the Apostle records what Jesus did in Capernaum:

10 And he called the people to him and said to them, “Hear and understand.” Matthew 15:10

Jesus was with the people. He went to where they were because He came to seek and save that which is lost.

Do you remember where Paul went when he was in Athens? Mars Hill…the Areopagus. It was the “marketplace” of ideas and it was there that he explained to the people the “unknown God.” Paul went to the people just like Jesus.

Now, I know some will say, “I can’t believe you are running a 15-second ad in a movie theater. Don’t you know what kind of movies they show in there?” Yes, I sure do. Some pretty rough ones and because of that, wouldn’t it be pretty amazing to have our ad pop up right before that movie. Aren’t those the folks we want to try to reach? And you know what? Some Christians might be sitting in those “rough movies” and might could use a little conviction, don’t you think? As the old preacher says, “If you can’t say, ‘Amen,’ say, ‘Oh my!'”

I ask you to pray for us as we try to make an introduction to 288,000 people about the church, which would be the avenue through which we can share Jesus. We’re excited to see what happens!

Speaking of being excited… This past Sunday Evelyn was dedicated to the Lord at church.

Isn’t she precious! I’m certainly a blessed Papa! It’s hard to believe she’s already 6 months old. Last night Clara had her violin recital in Winston-Salem…

She’s been taking lessons for 7 years. That’s also hard to believe!

She played Vivaldi’s “Concerto in A Minor.” She had to memorize it and it’s about 5 1/2 minutes long. Let’s just say that I couldn’t have done something like that in a million years. It’s amazing what you can teach a young person. It’s astounding what they can absorb.

Speaking of young people… This is a big weekend at church. We’ve got our annual Rite of Passage (ROP) Banquet for our young adults who have chosen to go through Rite of Passage this year. What is ROP?

Well, it’s simply a tool from Scripture, which points to a journey that is designed to move our children from childhood to young adulthood. It’s a “raising of the bar of expectations.” It’s been said, “Children will rise to the level of their parents’ expectations as adults.” The model for ROP comes from Luke chapter 2. Do you remember how Joseph and Mary couldn’t find Jesus and then discovered Him  in the Temple? He was 12 years of old and yet, He knew exactly where he was headed in life and the ultimate purpose and goal of His life. He said “Didn’t you know I had to be about my Father’s business?” Did you catch that? “Father’s business?” It was time (at 12) to be thinking about the ultimate mission of life. We know Jesus is our example in all things, and in all stages of life and that includes 12 year olds and becoming a young adult.

We also know from Luke 2 that Jesus was “submissive to His parents” and the Bible says He “grew in wisdom and stature and favor with God and men.” And so we seek to follow Jesus’ example. So, at MPBC, at the age of 12 (and up to 18), you can participate in our annual ROP. Here is our theme verse:

1 Corinthians 13:11

11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.

You see, ROP indicates that according to Scripture, a young adult is expected to act like “young adults” and to behave accordingly. It means they are expected to accept accountability for mature actions and to assume greater responsibilities. Why? Because we know maturity does not necessarily come with age, but with the acceptance and ownership of increased accountability and responsibility.

This year we have 14 young adults who have successfully completed a rigorous gauntlet of questions that had them digging in the Bible for hours. This is taken from the book I wrote about the subject…

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This year is our 10th year of doing Rite of Passage and we’ve had 89 young adults go through the program. This was last year’s group:

Isn’t that cool!!

Now, why is this significant? Well, various studies show that young people are walking away from their faith in droves by their 20th birthday. Some studies show as much as 80-90% of “Christian teens” will walk away from their faith within 18 months of graduating High School.

The truth is, I saw this happening. I taught the High School Sunday School class at church for over 15 years and this statistic was shockingly accurate. I knew there had to be a better way. We had to find a way to stop just entertaining our kids and actually raising the bar of expectations in their lives and give them a job to do in the church and use them for God’s glory. Young people want to feel a part of their church, not shoved away in some room with games, food and hand-me-down sofas. They want to feel needed, wanted and involved. Hence, Rite of Passage.

The banquet is tomorrow night. This was last year’s…

We’ll conclude the weekend with the Recognition service on Sunday with the Ceremonial “Passing of the Baton.” This was one of the young ladies last year (Emma Wages).

Yes, I’m excited about all of this because we’ve reversed the percentages. Yep, you read that right. We don’t have an 80-90% failure rate, but instead we’ve flipped the percentages. No, I’m not saying just because you do ROP in your church you will guarantee that your child will walk with the Lord. It’s not 100%. But, it’s certainly a lot better than what we’ve been doing I’ll tell you that! 🙂

One of the things the young adults have to do in the process of ROP is to describe Biblical Salvation and their salvation experience. I want to give you just one example of one of the answers. In this case a 16-year old, sophomore young man. (Used by permission.)

“For the longest time I wished I could tell people that I had your ‘average youth salvation.’ I never could though. I now rejoice in it. My conversion experience was so shaking to the core that I abandoned my will to God. The average youth salvation is: Around 8 or 9 years old you go to the altar and shake the pastor’s hand and he knows why you are there, because he knows your parents have probably been pushing you. Most likely due to insecurity, your parents pushed for this experience and the child felt pressured to make a premature decision for their faith that’s not really theirs. This pains me so much because we create so many false conversions, and because of that; when challenged about their salvation, they respond in arrogance to their sin…

What they don’t understand, and using this as evidence against their ‘conversion’ is they don’t truly understand salvation. Salvation is a continual process by which we grow in Christ confirming our salvation in His finished work on the cross. Fruit being the only outward evidence we can see is so important because that is our witness! We are the link between the Holy Spirit and people that attract non-believers to Jesus Christ.”

Folks, what that young man just described is Biblical salvation and I believe that’s the issue. So many young people aren’t really walking away from the faith by age 20. I believe many were never Biblically saved in the first place and it’s not totally manifested that this is the case until they leave home and get on their own. Hence again, the need in our churches to make sure we are locking down on what true, Biblical salvation is and to point that out to our young adults so as to make certain of their salvation.

The mother of this young man sent me this email:

“I want to tell you how grateful I am for the Rite of Passage program at MP.  It has been a great deal of work for [my son] and I am so happy he decided to participate.  I never encouraged him to participate, because sometimes that back fires on us a parents… This was all on him!! This study has really caused him to think about what he believes and writing it down appears to have put some solidity to it for him and for us. Thank you for all your hard work and time surrounding ROP…”

And that dear folks is why we do what we do!

Here’s this week’s “Two-Minute Tuesday” on “Why Atheists Could Die Out Because They Aren’t Having Babies.” It’s certainly thought-provoking!

https://subsplash.com/mpbc/v/sx4csug

Kevin

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Today was a big step back. You say, “Huh? A big step back?” Yep, a big step back toward the religious liberties and freedoms that this nation was founded on over 200 years ago. And yes, a BIG step back considering the last 8 years were simply catastrophic for religious freedom in America under the Obama Administration.

Today, President Trump signed a Religious Freedom Executive Order rolling back many of former President Obama’s  and his Administration’s policies that were nothing less than oppressive for Christians in Americans. A country founded by Christians, nonetheless.

Now, I really value what Tony Perkins of the Family Research Council has to say on important issues. And so, I’m going to share with you the full report of today’s activities from Perkin’s report. Here it is. It’s worth a good read.

Congratulations Are in (Executive) Order!

May 04, 2017

It’s not just the National Day of Prayer. It’s the national day of answered prayer for many conservative Christians! After an eight-year war on faith, President Trump finally called a ceasefire on the conflict started by Barack Obama with an executive order on religious freedom. The measure, which was celebrated in a signing ceremony at the White House, was the fulfillment of one of the most significant promises made by the longshot candidate: “to preserve and protect our religious liberty.”

For evangelicals, whose support propelled Trump to a historic win last November, this was one of the most meaningful returns on that investment. Although the order didn’t make it in under the 100-day wire, the quickness of it showed just how committed this administration is to bringing the government back in line with the First Amendment.

Among other things, the directive checks another big box on the White House’s to-do list — lifting the gag order on churches and other nonprofits under the Johnson Amendment. Since the first days of his candidacy, Donald Trump has railed against the 60-year-old piece of tax code that liberals have turned into a club to punish pastors with. For too long, the Left has used the IRS to threaten the charitable status of churches who dared to speak out on the moral issues of the day.

Of course, the irony of this whole debate is that pulpits are free to do exactly that under the U.S. Constitution. It was only when liberals seized on this twisted interpretation of the Johnson Amendment that pastors came under fire for exercising their God-given rights. To the phony claim that churches would somehow turn into mini-PACs, the White House was clear: “Nobody is suggesting that churches are allowed, or it’s legal, for tax-exempt organizations to take out ads endorsing candidates. That’s illegal now,” said an administration spokesman. “We’re not changing what’s legal, we’re not changing what’s illegal…” Instead, the nation’s tax agency is directed to use “discretion” in enforcing the language named after JFK’s successor.

Medical professionals, charities, businesses, and even nuns who’ve suffered under the outrageous mandate of Obamacare will finally have the relief they need to say no to insurance coverage that violates their conscience. After years of court battles, they’ll be free from regulatory harassment of including contraception and abortifacients in their health care plans. But that’s not all the order does. It sets in place a multi-step process that will provide some long-overdue protections by directing the Attorney General Jeff Sessions to develop guidelines for every federal agency to ensure they protect and promote religious freedom. This includes members of our military, who, under the Obama administration, have been systematically silenced and even purged. Men and women like Chaplain Wes Modder (U.S. Navy-Ret.) and Monifa Sterling, who stared down the ends of their careers for their deeply-held beliefs, can finally come out of hiding and live out their faith openly.

Finally, for our friends like Barronelle Stutzman and Don Vander Boon, who’ve suffered for their biblical views on marriage, there’s hope. As President Trump said, “No American should be forced to choose between the dictates of the federal government and the tenets of their faith,” President Trump told those of us gathered in the Rose Garden for today’s ceremony. “We will not allow people of faith to be targeted, bullied or silenced anymore,” the president said. “We will never ever stand for religious discrimination.”

Thanks to this White House, the open season on Christians and other people of faith is coming to an end. And Speaker Paul Ryan (R-Wisc.) looks forward to building on White House’s progress. “On this National Day of Prayer, I commend the Trump administration for taking action and will continue to make fighting for religious liberty a top priority of my speakership.” As we work with the Trump administration to address the problems created by Obama, it’s that they understand the dangers of the anti-freedom policies of the last administration. But, more than that, they’re committed to undoing those policies and restoring true religious freedom for everyone.

This step today starts the process of reversing the devastating trends of the last decade to punish charities, pastors, family-owned businesses, and honest, hard-working people simply for living out their faith. On behalf of FRC and the hundreds of thousands of families we represent, we offer our deepest thanks to the president and look forward to assisting him in returning America to the land of the free.


Tony Perkins’ Washington Update is written with the aid of FRC senior writers.

Now, there will be some who say that Trump didn’t go quite far enough with his order today. Some would have liked to have seen him go further. The National Organization For Marriage was one such group. They said:

President Trump has repeatedly promised that he would do everything in his power to protect the religious liberty of people of faith and faith-based groups. It was a major factor in his election. However, an executive order he signed today, while containing some helpful provisions for pastors and religious medical providers, falls far short of what is needed to protect people of faith from governmental persecution set in motion by the Obama administration. Instead, he has punted the issue to the Department of Justice which, he says, will develop new rules to protect the religious liberty rights of people and groups. 

Now, I don’t disagree with the NOFM. It’s true that the Department of Justice is going to weigh in on the future of “religious liberty” in this nation. But, I believe Attorney General, Jeff Sessions will handle things MUCH differently than Eric Holder and Loretta Lynch did. Don’t you?

Bottom line for me today this is where I’m at with all of this… Truly, I know that this is not a perfect world and so you take what you can get. For me, I’m so thankful that we’ve taken a step in the right direction. Yes, we’ve taken a step “back” toward our Founding Fathers and why we were established as a nation in the first place.

I feel exactly the same way about the repeal and replacement of ObamaCare. It’s not a perfect bill that the House is sending to the Senate and I promise you that it won’t look the same once the Senate gets done with it. (I really believe the Senate can make it better.) But, again…I’ll take what I can get.

For me, Neil Gorsuch, as our new Supreme Court Justice was a win as well! If Clinton had been in office, I can’t begin to even imagine what kind of judge we’d have had on the highest court in the land for the next (potentially) 20-30 years.

By the way, I laughed when I saw how CNN covered the events of the day. They hate and I mean HATE President Trump with a vitriol that’s truly amazing!

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“At last, a victory for Trump.” You gotta love the “At last” part. Makes me laugh. And then look to the right for the “Top Stories.” See the third story down where it says: “Trump signs order to allow more politics into the pulpit.” Oh come on! What a joke! That’s not the tone and tenor of the Executive Order at all! We’re not talking about bringing politics into the pulpit, we’re talking about a pastor not being targeted by the IRS because he speaks the truth from God’s Word. Truly, if Clinton had gone into office, I’m convinced my time as a “free” pastor would have been severely limited.

Let me return to ObamaCare for a moment. For me, (because of ObamaCare), I chose to save the church money and drop my “grandfathered” insurance plan from when I started pastoring (11 years ago) and go with a higher deductible (much higher in fact). (Let me say this…I’m blessed to have the insurance plan I have. I’m very grateful to MPBC for the plan I have.) But, my beef has been because of ObamaCare.

You see, because of ObamaCare, according to a letter I received from Guidestone Financial Insurance Company, they said they had to raise the premiums on the old plan I had by almost 25%. Why? Because of ObamaCare and the need to cover all of the Americans that would receive free insurance through the “Government Exchanges.” So, we dropped the plan several levels to compensate for that potential increase.

Well all would have been find, but Pam popped her ACL in China on a Mission Trip and the subsequent surgery, rehab and medical bills cost us over $12,000 out-of-pocket, when all was said and done. I guess I shouldn’t write that in the past tense, because we’re still making payments. Five of them to be exact, each month (to the tune of a nice-sized house payment).

So, do I have some animosity that’s built up in me over the last 8 years? You bet ya! And, I’ve had to pray a lot for a heart of forgiveness and surrender to the Lord. Therefore, the things that have happened today on this annual “National Day of Prayer” have not only been answers to prayer, but also some giant steps “backwards” to what we had in this nation prior to 8 years ago. And if you ask me, those steps are HUGE steps forward!

Here’s this week’s Two-Minute Tuesday (TMT)- “Which One Do You Believe? Both Take Faith.”

http://subsplash.com/mpbc/v/tuzosfm

Kevin

PS…I’m going to be taking a few days to unplug with my family next week. It’s time for a vacation break to recharge and refresh. There’ll be no TMT or Blog next week. Pastor Dale and Caleb will be covering the Devotions for me next week.

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